With being licensed I had to get a criminal record and child abuse registry check for myself and everyone else living in my home over the age of 16.

I would be concerned about their issue with my husband being around the kids. It is his home and there would be many situations where he may be home when the kids are home - before and after his own work hours, if he stays home sick, etc. I would be telling the family this, if they aren't okay with my husband then it isn't okay with me.