I always tell any family coming to interview me that it's a two way process, they may be interviewing me but I, in turn, am interviewing them to ensure that's it a good fit both ways and with the current children and families I provide for. It usually catches them by surprise because they never think that they are anything but the interviewer in the process and that they hold the whole process in their hands but I'm not a slave and I need to have things 'click' in my daycare. It works for me and I have no problem telling a family it's not a good fit for me.