Marty Monty .... If the kid is peeing on your furniture everyday then don't you think you would check to see that he has a diaper or pull-up on before the parent leaves and if he's in underwear you say" sorry he needs pull-ups ... Take him and go to the store and buy me a package of pull-ups to leave here.... I can not have him peeing on my furniture everyday " and dont let her leave with out the kid cause otherwise she'll just ignore you as she has been doing and head to work .... Really I don't understand how you can allow her to drop him everyday and not check...one puddle on my couch and the kid would be not allowed back without proper supplies