My daughter was a total gong show. Always banging into stuff and falling. We figured it was because she was so engrossed in what she was doing and after a growth spurt...forgot where her head ended. LOL

This little girl sounds like an energetic kiddo that really wants to interact with the babies. She needs lessons in how and the redirection plan suggested by the comments above is perfect. But man, does it take patience and repetition before it sticks sometimes.

Although my girl is no longer clutzy, she still tries to 'hug' the cat. We keep reminding her about gentle hands and every day it gets better. The cat seems to tolerate. Hopefully your babies will too.

Chin up I feel for you!