Love means appropriate boundaries and expectations. It does not mean pandering to their every whim.
When a child is taught that they are the centre of the universe - they believe it. What a complete injustice to that child. When a child is never told 'no', they don't understand boundaries. When a child doesn't have to work towards a goal, they have no sense of achievement.
Pandering to the whim of a demanding child is very, very different to placing boundaries in a loving and caring environment.

































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