Need to vent...going to snap!

[Secondtimearound]

I think to be fair to the child , parents have to understand in a dayhome setting , a child is not treated as an individual but rather as part of a group . To make my point clearer I do not mean the child is not an individual , he/she should be treated as a lovely part of a bigger unit .
The focus is in the group as a whole , if only one dislikes bananas , we will serve bananas the one child's individual likes/dislikes are taken into consideration but are not the only concern . As it sounds , these parents of course love their sweet child but unless you are employing a nanny , the caretakers focus will be on the whole group a opposed to one child getting special treatment .
I love this board ! Reading about other dayhomes crafts , vents ect make me feel supported , what I dislike is an obvious misconstruing argumentative response to a question that truly exists !!
And is relevant . I have a couple of princesses and princes as well and it totally depends on parents as to if it works out ! I have told my parents I care for them all equally !! They are all special ! My whole group gets special times sitting with me ect but I do not cater to one child specifically . If that makes me hurt your heart ..... My parents would back me up ! I have most of my dayhome kids not want to leave !