I get the feeling that you feel underappreciated for everything you do. Yes I do agree with you that we do all those wonderful things with and for their children but I certainly agree with the other ladies in that I don't rub it in mom's face. I sometimes think parents really don't "GET" what we do all day. They sometimes have issues looking after their one child and we have multiple children all different rules at home, different ages etc. I sometimes think we are very underappreciated. Christmas is coming, lets see who gives a nice card/note/gift etc LOL