Help with Sensory Issues

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Forgot to mention the reason her hat doesn't stay without being tied on - my girls are biracial and have massive curly hair. So winter hats literally pop off their heads. I use a winter head band for my older daughter, but my younger refuses to even put it on her head.

I know she has a strong minded personality and I don't let her get away with it mostly (pick my battles). But I was hoping someone out there had some ideas or support.

I just had a bad morning...

Yes I'm sure that makes a huge difference, still I'd be inclined to go shopping and make it fun to try on hats and see if she maybe finds something she is ok with. Got to be worth a try??