Vent away...that's what we are here forto support each other and bounce ideas of one another. I see how you are caught between a rock and hard place. You are friends with the family which makes it a whole other ball game.
You are not going to get any help from this family with his behaviour. If its really horrid, I would be tempted to end the friendship and let the dcb go. What else can you do?? Is he starting school in September? can you hold out until then? If his behaviour gets worse and he is hurting children then you might be forced into terminating him regardless.
Sorry you are dealing with this.![]()