So every time a child is hurt through inappropriate play we should terminate? Have you not read any of my posts or do you just choose to ignore the whole picture? These were isolated incidents and the hurting other children is not chronic and is without malice. He is a child that needs consistent support and I have been able to accommodate his needs while keeping the rest of the group safe. That's the best solution not terminating when things get tough. He isn't throwing hard objects at others, biting hitting or likewise, he is playing too rough and we are working to get it under control. It would be a disservice to this child to terminate over a normal developmental issue especially considering the circumstances. The children in my care are at no great risk of being injured by this child more than any other having a bad day. Jeez, your solution doesn't sound like the right thing but a cop out. Each to their own but for me that's what your suggestion sounds like. Everyone has their limits for sure and the safety of the whole group is my top priority. Easy solution is to pass the book to others to deal with a difficult task. I'll be sure to have invested everything into all children in my care before I give up!