HAs anyone had a VBAC????

[mlc1982]

I agree with everyone else. You might not think it now, but you will have no less love for your second child than you did your first. My girls are only 18 months apart and I was so worried I would not have enough love for the second. I felt I was doing something so wrong by bringing another baby into this world while I still had a baby. I felt like I was taking away from her. I cried and cried about it but you know what? As soon as dd2 was born, it never even crossed my mind again. It was an instant turn around.

As for the VBAC, you should be okay. I had a c-section with both of mine but was given the option of VBAC. I refused due to having a tough first labor, baby stuck in pelvis and being taken for c-section after 60 some hours in labor (crazy, I know.) I didn't want to chance that happening again.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!

[wolfpup]

Dont worry about it at all hun!!! Just enjoy the feelings of being pregnant (oh how I miss it) and know that you will love this second child just as much as the first. My husband and I both had those feelings... we loved our son so soooo much that we were worried we wouldnt feel the same about number 2.... hahaha what a joke! She is a princess that we love to death. I was able to enjoy my second pregnancy a lot more and loved sharing that with my son. He loved to kiss the belly, talk to baby, etc...
As for vbac... I did it and I would 100% recommend it. It was a great experience!!! I was able to nurse right away, bond right way, SIT right away!!! hahaha and my son was able to come in right away and meet his sister... it was amazing! Healing time was WAY WAY quicker!!! and wow... what a thing to experience! Do it and dont worry a bit! By the time number 2 comes you will be far enough from the c-section that everything will go fine!! Congrats! Enjoy the experience and stop worrying babe!