Thanks for everyone's comments. Lee-Bee.. I am totally on the same page as you. I'm just going to start not making it a big deal after all she is only 2-3 days a week with me. I serve everyone the same thing and it always includes a healthy home made balanced meal with fruit and veggies on the side.. she will come around but for now if all she is eating is the fruit there really isn't a lot I can do about it without help from her parents. She is 22 months old so still quite young to be negotiating with.

thank you all for your help.