Have any of you ladies had bad experiences with parents being really lazy with potty training? I have a dcg who is 3.5 yrs and is a nightmare to potty train. Her parents aren't any help either.

I have told her parents that she needs to come in a pull up and in clothes that she can easily take off when I send her to the potty. Of course, her parents send her in a diaper and a diaper shirt that has the snaps!!!! this is happening all the time! How is she supposed to get her stuff off if they send her in that???

Also, at home they will keep her in underwear for a while and then when she doesn't do anything, they put the pullup back on and she pees in that!

I'm at my wits end and feel like I'm the only one who's trying here!

Can I get some advice??