Good point, Sue, regarding her not even having been offered the job yet. I guess I am just SO irritated with this woman that I needed to post here where people understand. I feel like I am being duped, and that's not cool for one mom to do to another.

She's always had a paunch around the middle, and she wears loose clothing, so I can't really pretend to notice a bump.

About it being fair to my part-timer, I never told the mother that I would ditch a part timer. I think she just assumes that I will since she was here first. I will not get rid of one of my part time kids, as I like their parents, the kids are great, and besides they pay me more