Drawn out pick ups/drop offs

[mickyc]

I agree with 5LM. I would just tell her that it is disruptive as your son tends to act out when parents are there.

This also seems like a very odd request to me. I would never have agreed to it in the first place. There is no reason she can't breastfeed her child at home or even in the car for that matter if it is that important she does it right then and there.