Gift Exchange between Dcks

[AmandaKDT]

I would just leave it be, if they send stuff fine. My older daughter was in a home daycare before that had a established gift exchange for all birthdays and it was too much. It wasn't mandatory per say, but parents were sending presents for our kid so we felt obligated and it had a set spending limit of up to $20 per child. It was a hardship for us, on top of having to buy presents for kids we didn't really know.

I have some families here that send stuff for valentine's, etc and also for birthdays. But I never comment on it the parents or I try to not make them feel obligated to do anything.