I have a dcb just like this exactly actually. Why is it some toddlers go through this and some don't!? I'd like to ask if anyone has been through it and successfully come out on the other side? I just terminated one family because of the stress it wad causing me! Now it's happening with another dcb. Is it me?! Am I causing this to occur? Lol I can't keep terminating families because of these issues. Where can I go to turn for support though!? I hear ya kangaroomama and it sucks!