Quote Originally Posted by adaycarelady View Post
I'm a parent who takes the time to tell my children to go to the bathroom before we go anywhere since I would hate to have them have an accident while in the car. However, some parents just don't care about things until they cause problems. Sorry for seeking support. I guess I should have posted/vented after these kids starting peeing their pants while walking through my door. I'm sure it will happen eventually since one literally runs to the bathroom when getting here.
Don't go all passive aggressive "sorry for seeking support". You asked opinions and just because mine doesn't agree with yours. don't play the victim.

You don't live in their house. You don't know that the child wasn't sent to pee and tried but failed. You don't know what has to get done in their house before they come to you.

It amazed me how a day care provider would object to a kid needed to pee in their day care even if they have just arrived. Since when has it been the expectation that a child shouldn't been to go until a predetermined amount of time has passed.

What would be okay with you? 15 mins after arriving? 30 mins after arriving? Do you take into account the distance the child has travelled and likely time in the car? Is the kids who lives around the corner not supposed to pee for longer than the kid who travels or has to drop off a parent first.

Jeez, we all complain sometimes at elements of our job but really? Objecting to the fact a couple of kids need to pee on arrival? Is it really that big an issue.