I feel ya. For a while I had one dcg always being dressed in jeans that were WAY too tight, so much so the poor kid could hardly walk let alone run jump and play. I also had one who would wear "dresses" that were really meant as shirts in the summer and I eventually started putting shorts on her because it was embarrassing bringing her to the park with her undies hanging out! Now I have a rule that girls wearing dresses MUST wear shorts or tights underneath. Problem solved! Lol I also have one dcg who needs a haircut so bad. She has never had one, her hair is at her mid back but the bottom half of it is so fine and the rest is coming in thick, it would look so nice if she got it trimmed! I was also baffled that when I went to her bday party not too long ago, her hair was a complete mess....I usually throw in a hair tie to keep her bangs out of her eyes but couldn't believe that the parents just don't do anything at all with her hair, not even on her bday.

Bah, at the end of the day some things are just personal preference I know, but it can be hard to sit back and not be able to do anything about it, especially when you see the child is uncomfortable...I just makes you rolls your eyes....