Thanks everyone for all your great idea's I am going to have a serious talk with her then about paying the current rate or otherwise providing all his extra snacks. I did some more research and deiced at Snack times I will provided more protein's, I agree if I provide something like peas and he refuses then he is not that hungry, I have also decide that, it is not fair for him to come and eat at different intervals then the other children as, like some of you mentioned it starts a war and everyone wants to eat and food gets wasted because they are not hungry.

He comes from a split family and his dad, picked him up today so I mentioned it to him and he said his mom is a hypochondriac and he does not need to eat that much and feels that he would prefer if I didn't feed him this way. I felt he was way over eating as well, and at the same time i felt guilty that if he is truly that hungry that I don't feed him.