Quote Originally Posted by Lee-Bee View Post
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That you are giving notice of termination but that you will tentatively proceed with care if both parents agree that they and only they will do drop offs and pick ups (meaning you will never see a boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, grandma, aunt or who ever).

If either parents attempts to pull you in to this battle again or if either parent sends someone else for pick up that will be your last day of care.
I agree with this.

Put it in writing. Make BOTH parents initial ALL copies to demonstrate that they have read and understood.

I would also have a letter ready to provide at a moment's notice that you are terminating care due to not following the agreement. Then you don't have to worry about verbally terminating and giving them time to argue or beg for another chance.