I am sure that the emotional toll this is taking is still overwhelming, but I am glad that you have come to a decision. And having the time to decide how to proceed should you choose to sue the paralegal will hopefully help too.
I am also glad to hear that you intend to continue working on this. I think you may be the best advocate for reform because you have experienced one of the nasty sides of this system. I say "one of" because Toronto Children's Aid Society was in the news yesterday because they are failing to implement recommendations made by the coroner in the Jeffrey Baldwin case.
I will be waiting too for your link and will spread the word too.