I am so sorry for the outcome of the trail
Can you go to your bank and ask for an Equity Line of Credit for the money you need to pay the fine and also the lawyer so that way you don't lose your house
I studied in Toronto and in Vancouver and both colleges said we are to call CAS or Fam services in Vanc to protect the child as we are the last chance the child has sometimes - it did not say contact the child's Dr and let him check so the Judge got it wrong