I think, for the most part, this site is full of wonderfully nice people. I don't find too many of them rude

Something to remember though is that tone gets easily lost and/or misinterpated over text. Also, keep in mind that not everyone speaks English as their first language. That sometimes add confusion too. Lastly, remember that terms mean different things to different people. Nanny is one of those words apparently!

Asking for clarification before coming across as rude is sometimes the better option. However, we are human so from time to time, our posts will be filled with passionate feelings and sometimes we respond too quickly before rereading and understanding the comment.