What should I do?

[Elly]

So did you get a chance to talk to her at pickup time? Did she say anything about being on time from now on?

I talked with mom this morning. She said they were looking into a centre for him and would let me know. I also just found out that my part timer will be leaving late summer. They're moving out to the country. Looks like I'll be calling my waiting list

[Elly]

Update...

That evening, I found out that my husband lost his job
On Thursday morning, I decided to tell the clients that I could extend my hours to meet their needs and they said they would think about it. I can't afford to lose this income. I asked on Friday if they knew of their decision, and the mom said she would let me know next week.
So today, I texted them and mentioned there was a potential client and I needed to know if they were staying...all they could say is "We're considering you. Our meeting at the centre is on Wednesday, and I'll let you know by Friday". I know I was being wishy washy with my decision to keep them, and had my husband not lost his job, I would have just let them go. I don't know what kind of game they're playing...if they thought their son was benefiting from my daycare, wouldn't it be a no brainer? I don't know if I should wait until Friday for their answer? I'm losing sleep over this. Any help would be much appreciated

[kindertime]

So sorry to hear about your husband's job. That sucks. And as if you need more stress on top of losing clients. Which, is my prediction, btw. Since they know you, know that you are willing to accommodate their hours and they are still planning to meet with the center, I think they already have 1 foot out your door already.

Is it possible they were "pushing" their hours to get you to put your foot down? Some people don't like to take the initiative but rather choose to manipulate you into doing it for them. It has happened to me.

First thing Mon. morning, start calling your waiting list. Set up appointments. If you keep it vague the fact that spaces are available, then you can be prepared for any scenario.

I have had several parents take their children out of my daycare in favor of a big center. And I have one family that has been with me for 10 years and another for 6! It takes all kinds. Good luck and try to get some sleep tonight.

[Elly]

So sorry to hear about your husband's job. That sucks. And as if you need more stress on top of losing clients. Which, is my prediction, btw. Since they know you, know that you are willing to accommodate their hours and they are still planning to meet with the center, I think they already have 1 foot out your door already.

Is it possible they were "pushing" their hours to get you to put your foot down? Some people don't like to take the initiative but rather choose to manipulate you into doing it for them. It has happened to me.

First thing Mon. morning, start calling your waiting list. Set up appointments. If you keep it vague the fact that spaces are available, then you can be prepared for any scenario.

I have had several parents take their children out of my daycare in favor of a big center. And I have one family that has been with me for 10 years and another for 6! It takes all kinds. Good luck and try to get some sleep tonight.

Thanks for the advise!

There is hope in the long term. I have two lined up for July, and another possibility for September which is great. It's just what to do in the meantime, so yes, I will call my waiting list. I think what's bothering me most is the unknown and the head games.

[Suzie_Homemaker]

I agree. This Mom now thinks she's the boss. She is leaving you hanging around whilst she picks and chooses on her own schedule. I don't let that happen, I like things done on my schedule and if someone is being fishy, then I find replacer and give notice to fit with when the replacer starting. So what if it's not convenient to the person I am terming, clients give notice on their best time frame and so do I.

[Elly]

Update...
So this is funny.. Ever since my clients told me they were leaving for a centre mid-March, they've been arriving on or before my closing. I feel like asking them why, but then again...what's the point? I don't want to stir the pot.

Thanks to everybody for all the help and suggestions. This forum is a blessing