OMG! You poor thing. I feel your pain. I have severely sensitive skin. I'm dealing with something right now since coming off my progesterone pills which has me with welts seemingly from the slightest of physical contact and I am a manic itcher, it's crazy and drives me nuts. I can't imagine being pregnant too ARGHHH!

I think it is fair to insist that the whole family be treated before allowing him back into care and she would have to pay for that time. I would just be afraid that she'd say she did even if she didn't and there is no way of knowing for sure she did.

I'd be pissed off too but unfortunately as 5LM said it's part of the job and you can't expect pay because you caught something off a child. You shouldn't need to close down though. Treat the scabies in the evening for your whole family and strip your beds at night and sanitize wash them and as for your playroom, it doesn't need disinfecting because the scabies insects can not live on hard surfaces and even fabric they can not survive off the human body beyond 2 days.