Yep, mine's the same way. You could do what I did - start letting more and more slide because you're so exhausted you can't think straight and no longer care - and hope that eventually he picks up some slack. Haha...it wasn't planned that way, but it worked! He now takes care of his and the kids' laundry, whereas before I did it all. I also told him that if he's going to sleep in every morning while I get myself up, get our three kids up and fed and dressed, AND deal with 5 dckids, he's going to pack their lunches the night before, because I don't have time. He hates it, but I truly don't care. He gets an extra hour and a half of sleep every morning and gets to only worry about himself!! He has time for a shower every morning, while I have to steal my showers every other night after the kids go to bed.

Good luck....it's still an ongoing battle, as I think it is with many people here. Men seem to think that if we're home all day, obviously we have all the time in the world to do household chores, on top of running a business!!