Daycare dad arrested

[Suzie_Homemaker]

Be careful. Is all this information coming from the mother? Without any paperwork, how do you know if it is true?

I know you want to make sure the child is not hurt and that the Dad is not a risk to you or anyone else but until you have court paperwork telling you different, right now, you just have one person's word - and that Dad has the same rights as the mother until he doesn't. You can't just deny a Dad access without paperwork just as you couldn't deny the mother access without paperwork.

What a mess.

[kingstonkids]

Thanks for all your advice!

@suzie I was feeling the same way about the situation. Not that I don't trust the mother but you have to guard yourself.

I called the police and they have confirmed what you all said, that I need some form of no contact order or a copy of his bail restrictions.

I just spoke to the mom and she doesn't have anything yet. He went up this morning and she is still waiting for them to call to say if he was released or not.

I don't have the baby here today, but he should be back tomorrow. I do have a window and will keep my door locked even when other parents are here.

Thanks again everyone.

It is such a horrible situation apparently the baby is pretty banged up (