Thanks for all your advice!

@suzie I was feeling the same way about the situation. Not that I don't trust the mother but you have to guard yourself.

I called the police and they have confirmed what you all said, that I need some form of no contact order or a copy of his bail restrictions.

I just spoke to the mom and she doesn't have anything yet. He went up this morning and she is still waiting for them to call to say if he was released or not.

I don't have the baby here today, but he should be back tomorrow. I do have a window and will keep my door locked even when other parents are here.

Thanks again everyone.

It is such a horrible situation apparently the baby is pretty banged up (