The 'nap' issue surfaces again...amongst others

[mickyc]

Do you have a copy of their separation agreement?

For split families I would be very particular in noting who paid every payday. I would write out one receipt for the child and at the bottom split it up showing who paid what amount. Give them each a copy (noting on the receipt that both parents provided receipt). Then leave it to them to fight out who claims what. You would have covered everything on the receipt.

As for nap it is not negotiable here for any child under 4. I would have just told the dad all kids are required to nap. I would have then ignored any other texts about other children in your care. None of his business.