wow! I should have popped some popcorn before I opened this thread!
Just my two cents, I will take cloth diapers, but I will not scrape or dump the poop either! If that doesnt work for the parents, they simply need to find someone else. Just like any "extra favour" that I agree to with this job, I find I quickly become resentful. In my experience the more extra you agree to, the more they expect. its not a bad thing to stick to your wants and needs, it will save everyone some trouble in the end.
I just wanted to add, that the cloth diapered little ones I have had in my care, do tend to stink more (even when they are not poopy, the diapers just stink...but as someone mentioned in an earlier post the diapers themselves were not likely cleaned properly) also I find the kids get more diaper rashes, might have just been the kids, just an observation I have experienced