Have you already committed to this?

I had a bad feeling about a mom during our initial meeting and remember saying to my husband "I think she is going to be the first family I will have to terminate" ........and I was right!! I wish I had gone with my gut but in the end I did learn a few lessons and it all worked out in the end but still....I should have listened to myself from the beginning LOL

If you are already hesitant about taking this family on, I would move on and find another family (unless finances don't allow, I understand that!) but IMO, it's just not worth the grief!