Quote Originally Posted by sandylynn View Post
I GUESS you are right 5 little Monkeys...it probably is a money issue....heck...if they spent 20.00 on a Christmas gift for their daycare provider (the person who looks after the most precious and important person in their life for 10 hours a day)....they wouldn't have been able to put those hardwood floors in their home....gone on the Disney cruise....that they just returned from or bought the new car 3 months ago....ya...hm...mus t be a money issue!
Wow. I think this harsh.

It not for us to say what client spend their money on nor how much is acceptable.

Some my client very generous, some not so much. But not my place to determine their priorities. End of day, I am service provider to them and they pay for my fees. Sure, I look after their babies but just because I have big responsibilities not expect big gesture based on my expectation.

I would be annoyed if my garbage collector, hairdresser, book keeper, car mechanic, all decided that the money for their bill not enough and that they all entitled to Christmas gift and they all entitled to decide what is acceptable expense of it.

Maybe be less disappointed if adjust expectations to be realistic. LOL Young family allowed to spend their own money on hardward floor and vacation if they choose. Not up to you to decide that if they can afford these they should be giving you gift too. LOL