I had a nightmare parent like this once, with a big list of "needs" after signing the contract (including no grapes, because I might not cut them small enough, and no red paint because it doesnt come out in their laundry) I put up with this one way too long, however I did learn something, in our meeting/interview she was in a panic because the daycare she had lined up "fell through", I never asked what happened. Looking back now, I am sure she signed on, then did the long list of requirements too, and that provider was experienced enough to say no way....live and learn