I have a 3 yr old girl in my care that is a toy hog. She is usually the first one here in the morning, she grabs one of the toy backpacks, and puts all her favourite toys in it, then she either puts it on her back all day, or she keeps it right beside her. She says she is "playing with them", but she's not, she is just preventing the other kids from playing with them. I'm I making an issue of this, should I just allow her to do this? she gets really upset if any of the others manage to get one of these toys she has claimed. prior to putting them in a backpack, she would pile them up and sit on them so that no one can touch them. She is not playing with them, she is actually playing with other toys, she just won't let anyone else play with them....now of course because she claims these toys everyday, the others want to play with them....its driving me crazy