When, the parents leave you do what you feel is best for you, I guarantee that they really don't care that you have to clean the mess the child makes. I had a parent that asked me to bring their 2 year old to the bathroom, she barely talks, she's not ready for potty training. It goes in my one ear and out the other. You should have a potty training policy in place no exception.I have another child that she always goes for her BM after I put them down and she removes her clothing and her diaper and smears poop everywhere in the playpen. I asked the parents to put her in onesies they didn't, I also asked them to bring her own playpen they didn't. Yesterday, I put my grand-daughter onesies on her and when I when to get her she had her pants off and she had poop all the way down her back. Not to good for my grand-daughter onesies. Today, she wearing overall there going on backwards. Last week, I carried her and put her in my shower, she was covered with feces from her waist to her feet. The parents don't care that I have to spend all the time cleaning and disinfecting.