Please Stop Peeing In Your Pants :(

[Emma H]

Hi everyone,
I have a family who started potty training their son literally last week. He is three years old and they skipped the pull ups and went straight to the underwear. The issue is he keeps peeing his pants, half the time I have to make him go sit on the potty because he tells me he doesn't need to go. I don't have time to constantly keep cleaning up the carpet as I have other kids who need me too. I really don't know what to do!

Ps they are leaving in two weeks so all this week isn't really worth it

[torontokids]

Tell them he is having too many accidents, is not initiating the potty and needs to wear Pull ups at daycare for the above mentioned reasons e.g. hygiene, multiple children

[kindertime]

If he's really not ready, then, yes, I think you're right. Not worth it. Pull-ups or diapers. It's only two weeks after all. And why would the parents start right before making a big change in his life? I mean, really!

[Emma H]

I know!! That's exactly what I was thinking! I think she did this on purpose bc she gave me a two weeks notice bc she could afford more then two days a week so I then told her if she wants her last weeks deposit applied she has to give me a a four weeks notice...she said fine lol that's it just Fine lol so I think she's either getting back at or she's trying to use me up for the last two weeks...it's a nightmare this kids had peed him self twice in the first hour ...he keeps scratching his face for whatever reason he looks like he got scratched by a cat and of top of that this morning he told me he's sad bc mommy hit him in the eyess....nightmare

[sandylynn]

This is without a doubt a NO BRAINER....after he is dropped off..put a diaper on him...put his underwear on for pick-up!

[kindertime]

ummm..... hit him in the eyes, did you get the story on that?

[Emma H]

He was telling me that he was sad and I asked him why so he said I don't know ...then I said yes you do you just use your words...he said I'm sad bc mommy gave me time out and hit me in the eyes and he cried and gave me a hug

[Suzie_Homemaker]

You've had such a run on bad luck this last two weeks.

This 3 year old boy who you believe being toilet trained and used as pawn by parent because you holding them to 4 week notice instead of 2 weeks who it now seems is also being hit by parent.

Then the parents you termed as rude when you called them to come and get their sick child. Can't remember age as you edited your comment and toned it down.

Then the 16 mth old who smelled strong with potential yeast infection that Dad not concerned about.

Then one of your two pregnant Moms annoyed you by asking to drop PT in April and you so annoyed you considered terminating but a quick discussion sorted it all out.

Then the parents who struggle with stroller in snow and want pick up/drop off service.

And the new boy who was crying on his first day on 2nd March and you wondered how others handled it.

All this drama in 10 days. Holy! I could not handle such drama all the time. Must be very stressful.

[Emma H]

You've had such a run on bad luck this last two weeks.

This 3 year old boy who you believe being toilet trained and used as pawn by parent because you holding them to 4 week notice instead of 2 weeks who it now seems is also being hit by parent.

Then the parents you termed as rude when you called them to come and get their sick child. Can't remember age as you edited your comment and toned it down.

Then the 16 mth old who smelled strong with potential yeast infection that Dad not concerned about.

Then one of your two pregnant Moms annoyed you by asking to drop PT in April and you so annoyed you considered terminating but a quick discussion sorted it all out.

Then the parents who struggle with stroller in snow and want pick up/drop off service.

And the new boy who was crying on his first day on 2nd March and you wondered how others handled it.

All this drama in 10 days. Holy! I could not handle such drama all the time. Must be very stressful.

Just wondering, as you keep mentioning it subtly, why it matters to you so much as to why I edited out my posts. Is there a written rule on this website that forbids people to edit posts? I think not and I don't need to explain myself.

It also worries me that you keep track of my posts.

As for everyone else, thank you for your help I will mention pull ups to the mom.

[Suzie_Homemaker]

Just wondering, as you keep mentioning it subtly, why it matters to you so much as to why I edited out my posts. Is there a written rule on this website that forbids people to edit posts? I think not and I don't need to explain myself.

It also worries me that you keep track of my posts.

As for everyone else, thank you for your help I will mention pull ups to the mom.

Actually, it was not me who mentioned it before but when have you ever let factual information get in your way. It also interested to note if more than just me express opinion, it only me you attack. I did not ask you to explain yourself - I think you protest too much that I mentioned a factual event that I cannot refer back to the age of a child because you edited your comment. Why are you so offended and defensive of the truth of an event?

I can draw my own conclusions (and have done) about why you feel need to rant and then tone down. I think much is to do with your need for validation and not having strength of character to stand by your actions or words. It a repeating pattern we seeing from you.

You imagine a slight by applying a tone of your choosing and then you attack people. It's a small minded bullying tone because you repeatedly go after same person. I think this very dangerous personality type in one who cares for children. Power tripping carer's are very dangerous, have cruel streak, and often narcissistic.

It's doesn't matter to me. It amused me. It's like teenager editing story all time. It's interesting to see from an adult. Very telling about type of person.

Why you worried about someone keeping track of your post - it hardly tricky - one click and all the drama is there to read. No need me keep track, system does it for me. If this what you worry about, maybe invest that time sorting out business so less drama to post about. I think most adult with true investment in their business would be focussing on that.

I always wonder why you need to pop up and make situation personal every single time, always trust you to read the worst into any post. It is almost entertaining to be able to predict which post you will imagine to be a dig, and you come out attacking.

Do you speak to your "rude" "inconsiderate" "unbelieveable" clients this way too? Do you often imagine any comment is a dig at you? Do you think people even care enough to bother doing that?

Only concern I have with you is repeated action of blaming others for situation you in, belittling of clients for being rude, unrealistic, daring to request a change in situation, the know-it-all tone of superiority over the parents of children in your care and the narcissistic tendencies. The bitterness in your posts, the covering of your tail by editing your strong rants - it's like you can't help yourself, need to post for the attention and then realise it shows you in bad light or that you don't get the validation or awesomeness you expected. That only concern me because you have young children in your care.

I know this might not be popular post but someone on such a power trip with such anger and bitterness towards people who you simply determine you don't like, is a worry. To not be able to control yourself and conduct yourself professionally is big worry when there is not another adult to monitor your power around little children.

It very scary that you chose this for your career. Hopefully this on-line persona is not real reflection of your true personality.