Quote Originally Posted by AmandaKDT View Post
I obviously wasn't there to hear the conversation you had, but I'm sure the mom didn't appreciate being told everything her child was doing wrong at daycare when she had called you about her child being spit on. Even though it is hard to do, the conversation should have stayed on the matter at hand. It can be hard to not take it personal, but parents gets emotional when it comes to their kids and that parent's anger was understandable (just like your own emotional response is understandable). .
I appreciate your suggestions and input. You gave me a few things i can try with my daughter.

During the conversation, dcmom asked what we could do to try to resolve conflicts and if there was anything her son needs to work on why I replied that how I did. I kept it to two recommendations (to leave my daughter when she has been separated due to her behaviour to prevent further conflict, and to listen to her when she says she doesn't want to play, same rule as I apply to my son). I didnt go tit for tat with a arms long list of problems with her son because honestly, there are no major issues of concern with him . Dcmom asked how we (meaning both sides) can resolve conflicts and I when i replied I feel like she was put off by my response.