Thanks everyone. I appreciate the support. If you look at my initial post at 4 am, it was obviously bothering me and only had half a nights sleep. I understand you have to listen to your kids but Fun And Care is right, I did not feel like she believed me And I did feel like like she was very wound up about it. I understand her feelings though because I know that her son was being picked on at school and teachers and principals were involved, and I was in a similar situation with my son too. I can empathize with the feeling when your child is bring picked on but I didn't appreciate being doubted and the subtle sass I was getting.