Parents never ask about my hubby because they don't really have to. I am upfront right for the beginning and he is usually there for the interview. He isn't here that much, just before/after work and obviously on days off etc. I have only on occasion had him be my back up but I always give parents the option of keeping their child home instead and my waiving the fee if they don't feel comfortable.

I seriously don't blame ppl though. I myself have gotten very wary of males who come in contact with my kids as of late. We recently discovered that a well loved doctor from our hometown was a molester. He was my hubby's doctor. Then, we found out just a few weeks ago that a lawyer from our town molested his daughters when they were little. The kicker is I babysat this guys kid...a lot. Nothing ever happened, but man....it really makes you think that even ppl you know and trust can be all kinds of bad....*sigh* it's so so terrible