I agree with alphaghetti that micromanaging and attachment parent are two separate things. This woman may be both however and I think most people would avoid the micromanaging parent. Like she said though, both parents have to be on the same page. If she's a micromanager I would have to terminate and as I said before if she was an attachment parent, she probably wouldn't choose me, as I don't have a problem with children crying it out a bit, I don't believe in the family bed thing or as I said carrying the young child around on me. It all depends on your own views and getting like minded parents.