It would be a big IGNORE from me. Lights out, blacked out curtains, and walk away until nap time is over. You're right, she is trying to engage you and push your buttons...if there are no buttons around to push, she'll give up
Normally I think ignoring would be the way to go except I have never had her in a PNP and she would climb out of her crib at home so I wanted to make sure she was safe. Plus my room admittedly wasn't really set up properly for her nap as it was a mid nap decision so I don't have a camera in that room. Tomorrow I will be more prepared!
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