My trick of the trade is encourage independence as much as possible, kids can do so much if you give them a chance (also makes my day easier!). I am working right now on getting my potty trained 2 year olds to properly wipe themselves after peeing, washing hands independently at the bathroom sink and also getting dressed and undressed for outside by themselves. I am also using my wagon and stroller as little as possible, teaching them how to safely cross the street and walk on the side walk - my crew is all over 2 years old and we are on a quiet street so this is possible.

This is why I shake my head when the parents show up at the end of the day and these independent kids all of a sudden can't do anything for themselves.