Thanks, Fun&Care. I also have a no rinse policy....it all goes in a bag ready for the parents to deal with. It obviously isn't discouraging them. Dad would just make excuses for why he thought it was happening. Mom, like I said, would usually comment that I wasn't taking him to the bathroom enough times. Honestly, I am surprised I didn't completely lose it today after the second poop he did in his pants, or after the reaction from his parents after telling them that I can't do this anymore.