OK - Im so confused? Im not trying to offend anyone in any way...but did I miss a post here somewhere? Hape was concerned about about an interview she felt weary about it. Some people maybe look past things, and take longer to understand what others are all about/suggesting or getting at. Sometimes people trust others too much, but dont trust their own judgement, hence the reason why Hape came on the forum asking for help. Not sure how this all got turned around into what kind of person Hape is? Again, not offending anyone, just really confused??