Hi Everyone,

Looking for some advice from providers on whether or not you would terminate care. Some of the basics include: providing care for 2.5 year old twins. They have been with me for 5 months now 3 days per week. Their behaviour is out of control almost every day. Originally Mom said it was separation anxiety, but I do not believe it was that at all. They are very mean to the other children in care, to each other as well as wilfully destructive to the toys in my home. When they are told not to do something or asked to do something they have complete meltdowns, screaming to the point where the girl twin throws up all over my house. Mom, is very difficult to deal with. She blames everything on all the other children and never accepts responsibility for her own children and their behaviours. I have a rule for no outside food/drink yet she shows up 2 out of 3 days with Mcdonalds breakfast for her children or popcorn (which I don't allow at all because the little ones could choke on it). I have addressed this issue with her, as well as sending out a reminder to ALL my daycare families that outside food/drink just causes issues. She chooses to ignore it all and continues to bring it. She blames me and my house and the other children if her children get sick. She will text me saying "who did you let come to daycare sick, my child is sick now" and things along those lines. This morning her children had a complete temper tantrum being dropped off and she said it was because a child was mean to them yesterday. The child she is blaming stuff on wasn't even here yesterday. I'm very frustrated and think termination is pretty much where I am at...what would everyone else do? This was just a brief explanation of her and her children...there is lots more! Thanks in advance to anyone who can advise