Thanks for all the support! Judy: I have actually considered termination because of this plus the challenges I have already been facing with this child...I'm glad to hear I am not out of line here. Playfelt: yes I did take pictures and I will be sending them to all the parents as soon as I get them trnasferred to the computer...they will definitely see their child wearing pants under the costume even though we were inside and there were definitely no wings, tights or antennae! I am in the process of writing an email along the lines of what Spixie suggested, but want to make sure it says exactly what I want to say, so I'm taking my time on it and trying to word it carefully.