Advice Please!

[daycarewhisperer]

If you don't want to term because you want the money then you just have to suck it up. It will get way worse and there will be injuries. Make sure you are fully insured.

The Dad is lying but the good news is hos words are your escape clause. He says he doesn't do it at home so then there is NOTHING wrong with the kid. He isn't special needs. He is just doing poorly in YOUR environment. He will do well anywhere else and if he only does well at home then the parents need to keep him home. He deserves to spend his days where he behaves like the little gentleman he truly is.

You don't have to worry a single second about termination and doing the kid a disservice. He does so well at home and he does horribly with you. It is in HIS best interest to be somewhere where he thrives and behaves like a completely normal boy.

You do not owe him a good daycare. He will leave your home and in six months won't even recognize you in public. He will have no memory of you. His parents won't utter your name. It won't matter a single iota in ANY way in his life.

Now if you want the money... then ignore that. He has a crap ton of issues and you aint seen nothing yet.