Well, you would have to go on gut feeling and the tone having been used. I t doesn't really sound like he's threatening legal counsel it almost sounds like he might be embarrassed by his son's behavior and is trying to make it himself feel good by noting important friends and such to put himself at a higher social level or something. (because this naturally balances out your unruly child).
I would be cautious about proceeding with the other child though. I would expect that their parenting will be quite similar with child 2 versus child 1 and I can't help but think you'll have constant headaches about behavior in the coming year(s). That said, you have her at a younger age so can get her trained to your rules and expectations much faster than with a 4yr old. But, I would still caution that the child may very well have those same aggressive tendencies and an older brother modelling it.
If you proceed make sure you have a very clear contract...and perhaps a new contract specific to them noting an extended 'trial period' where you are able to terminate due to aggressive behavior etc etc.
Good luck!

































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