Thank u ladies. I sent out a text saying I am not comfortable with waking a sleeping baby early. She's busy all am and gets quite tired by noon. I'll do my best to get her up no later then 230 but earlier then that I won't do. She wrote back saying I understand. If she's up by 230 that's fine with me.
So well see how long it lasts before something does is said again. I can just see it now...she'll be the kid at 3yrs with mom saying no nap. Which won't fly here, all under 4 are on a bed or in a bed for quiet time/nap. Lol.